What We Hope For

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I knew my son valued his job, but I hadn’t considered if his employer valued him.

“Behind you!” I heard Max call as he walked through the bustling commercial kitchen. As a mom, I’m doing an excellent job of “letting go,” just as long as my son wears a hazmat suit, or in this case, perhaps a full-body oven mitt. Fortunately for Max, I’m not his regular job coach in this busy Cape Cod seafood restaurant. But when his coach calls in sick, there is no way I’m going to let Max miss his day of work.

Max passed through the hot kitchen, punched his time card, and made his way into the dining room. “Come on in, Max!” the manager smiled. “Hi Cory!” Max answered as he grabbed the window cleaner. I scurried to keep up as Max washed all the windows and tables in the restaurant, filled the sugar caddies, and restocked the condiments. “How about getting the ice, Max?” Cory suggested. Max bounced up on his toes and followed directions as if autism never clouded his mind, never caused him to lose focus or hesitate.

Finally Cory unlocked the front doors, “Ready Max?” he said as the line of waiting customers flooded in. Max held the door open and greeted people with his mile-wide smile. The dining room is Max’s turf; Cooke’s didn’t make him a back room guy.

I almost blew this job for Max. It was mid summer and Max was scheduled to work on the 4th of July. He only works one morning a week, but with the holiday traffic on the Cape, I knew the commute would be unbearable. So a few days prior I sent Cory an email to cancel. Cory responded almost immediately. As I read his words I felt a tinge of embarrassment. And then I sat back in awe.

“Hi Emily, Max is doing a great job and we love having him! I want you and Max to know that we truly rely on him. That being said, it’s difficult for me to adjust the schedule with such short notice – especially on a holiday weekend. In the future, I’ll need a little more notice for a day off. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but he really is a part of our team and I’m telling you what I would tell anyone else that works at Cooke’s.”

 I knew how much this job meant to Max; I just hadn’t considered how much Max meant to Cooke’s.

“Here’s one for you, Max,” I heard Cory say. I turned to see a tray towering with golden fried clams and a stack of onion rings. “Can you make a food delivery?” I looked at the tray and went a little weak in the knees, imagining how easily those clams could become airborn. But Max just stood tall with his shoulders back as if he’d been waiting his whole life for this moment. As I followed Max into the dining room I couldn’t help but notice how capable my son has become, how valued he is in this restaurant. His steps looked so free that I stopped following.

I let him go.In dining room

I watched from a distance as Max set the tray down with only a minor bump. The customer looked at his plate as the rich fragrance filled the air. Max knew the next part; he’d been practicing at home with his job coach. Cooke’s has made Max the official Customer Satisfaction Representative; we need more employers in the world like Cooke’s. “Welcome-to-Cooke’s-How’s-everything-Enjoy-your-food,” he said as if it were a single word. My heart burst.

The customer looked up and smiled, but didn’t have a chance to answer. Max was already bouncing back toward the kitchen, ready and willing to take his next assignment. I could feel tears well up in my eyes because I knew the unspoken answer. We all knew.

“Everything is great, Max.”

 

By Emily Colson

7 thoughts on “What We Hope For

  1. Ron Sandison

    Awesome testimony!!! Max is a true inspiration. In the next year over 40,000 young adults with autism will be looking for employment in the U.S. May God bless those welling employers and parents who helped their child learn the skills to work in the employment field. Thanks for sharing Emily : )
    Ron S.

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  2. Danielle Lewon

    hey Emily

    I’m so glad to see Max is doing so well now that he is out in the real world working.. Feels like just yesterday we were at kimballs working on his skills, clearly he is an amazing kid.. With that being said he is one of the kids I definitely miss the most.. Glad he is being that shining star …

    Danielle Lewon

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  3. Kerri Speck

    Hi,
    It is so great to see Max doing so well! I always had faith he could do anything he put his mind and hard work into! I now work with much younger students on developing the basic life skills needed to eventually work out in the community, and this is such a great example of what can be accomplished! Way to go Max 🙂
    Best Wishes,
    Kerri (your former OT)

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  4. Ashleigh (Hochman) Fasulo

    Emily and Max,

    I can’t tell you how much my heart swells reading this and other articles recently. Max has had such a profound impact on so many lives (mine included) and you have done such an amazing job sharing his abilities and smile with the world. Thank you!! I think of him often – especially when listening to the radio 😉 give him a big high five for me!!!

    Ashleigh

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  5. Beth

    Oh Wow! I think I could just read this over and over! What an incredible young man you have there! My son is 15 and I have a hard time imagining that we will get to the point you are now…it just makes my heart smile to read this.

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  6. Keirth Stull

    This gives me so much hope! My 18yo daughter has cerebral palsy. She does a work study program and we are so excited about it, but…. Mamas will still worry. Thanks for sharing! Great job, Max!

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